Sexting 101: Our Guide


If you’re feeling like you’re not experiencing sex the way you want it to, we might just have the solution for you. Sexting is an alternative to experience sexual pleasures, and we suggest you give it a go! With that said, here’s a quick guide on how to make sexting the best sexual experience of your life!


1. Proofreading!

When it comes to sexting, most people are really turned off by texting languages. You need to make sure that your messages are deliberate and as sexy-sounding as possible. Before sending these sexy texts, you should make sure they are as perfect as possible.


2. Pick your pics

When sending your partner a nude, don’t just take a random picture of yourself. You’re presenting an experience to your partner, and you want their imagination to run wild. A pixelated picture of your butt is not really what they’d like to see most of the time. Also, you need to make sure that your face, scar, tattoos or any remarkable feature of your body aren’t shown. It’s just a safety precaution that you should take to avoid getting your pictures leaked.


3. Time it right

Just like other sexual experiences, timing is everything. You don’t want to send a sext to your partner during their important meeting, do you? Make sure you know the right timing for it, and your sexting experience will be 10-times better!


4. A little bit of making stuff up is okay (and recommended!)

Sexting is all about crafting an experience, and sometimes, a little bit of an exaggeration is needed to tickle your partner’s fancy. Telling your partner you’re in a lingerie when in fact you’re in your ragged pair of pants is completely fine! As long as you both enjoy the experience and no one is harmed in the process, there’s nothing wrong with a little bit of a white lie.


5. Stay within your comfort zone… Mostly!

Don’t let your partner force you into doing things you don’t want to do. Sexting should be solicited, and once that boundary is breached, you need to take yourself out of that situation. Talk with your partner, tell them what’s okay and what’s not, and make sure they play by the rules.


6. Don't jump the gun

Just like normal sex, sexting will need a good build up. If you rush to the climax, then there’s no payoff. You need to slowly build up the tension and the yearning for each other. What you want to do with your partner and what you’re doing with yourself. As you build up the emotion, the payoff will be much more rewarding.


7. End with some sexy promises!

Ending a sext is kind of an awkward moment, but it doesn’t really have to be. Since it’s all about crafting an experience, you can give any type of promise you want! This way, your partner will be looking forward to the next time, and the longer they have to wait, the better the payoff.


8. Don't go overboard

Even though we just said that you should exaggerate the experience a little bit, it doesn’t mean that you should make a fantasy novel out of it. Build a believable experience and stick with it throughout. This way, it’s more believable, and it gets the imagination rolling a little bit easier.


9. Switch OFF your text preview

This is like a spoiler to a movie. It benefits no one and it’s not necessary for the experience. In fact, it can take away from the overall pleasure you can get from the sexting session. Just turn it off. It’s better that way.

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